Sideline

I’m so scared.

Scared to care, to feel and to love.

And I guess it’s because when I feel, care and love

I do it much stronger than the average person.

I feel everything from pain to love so strong

and I have let it become my weakness

instead of making it my greatest strength.

But I’m scared.

I’m scared to get rejected, to let myself feel and fall yet again.

But this is not a life.

to see everybody else living their life

while i’m just at the side.

In everything else I’m part of the game, life.

But when it comes to love I am just someone who is watching on the sideline.

Love. By Lauren Conrad. Told in GIF’s.

Lauren Conrad has a lot of advice when it comes to love – and here they are.


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CODE RED! This is not how it’s supposed to be. But hey?? Haven’t we all been there?

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Another code red. Never let a guy manipulate you!

 

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Some guys it’s just impossible to stay friends after love.

Too much love or too much hurt.

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Choose love. But don’t forget everything else in your life.



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Classic.

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Love is not easy. But especially in the beginning you shouldn’t chase a guy.

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Yes. We all have to remember that when we feel that past relationship has broken us.

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That’s usually how girls tell if a guy really like a girl.. or just has good manners.

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Nobody should settle!

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Yes!! Men have a built-in radar.

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Yes. It’s hard. But time heals all wounds.

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When the guy you like or even love makes a decision you don’t agree with.


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Yes girls. Please remember and take it into consideration sometimes.. Girls over guys!



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After a breakup it always seems that people have to mention the guy who broke your hearts name..

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Yes. Getting your hope up and thinking it’s a thing is dangerous.


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Yes we usually want to be that girl. It just never happens.


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Being with someone brings a lot of joy into your life but it also brings a lot of heartache.

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Yes. It’s a universal rule that there is a person you always seem to go back to.

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Not every relationship is supposed to work out. Some relationships are just there to provide you with lessons and with the joy of being in love.

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She said it.

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Oh yes! It sure can be sometimes.

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Guys can be the biggest jerks you have ever met sometimes.

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Again. Never settle!

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Sometimes you just have to deal with the facts and move on from a relationship. In the end, it will benefit you more.

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No it doesn’t. Life changes. But hopefully one day you find the person who will stay by your side through it all.

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Yes. It can be hard to let go. But when one door closes another one opens.

And remember there are plenty of other fish in the sea…. 😉

 

Head vs. heart

It all started at hello

I didn’t see it and neither did I see the beauty in you at first

I saw a man who was happy all the time

Little did I know

That this man was broken

Little did I know

That you were going to break my heart.

I remember how it felt when you kissed me the first time

I remember what you told me

And what I told you:

It will never work and we’ll end up in a big mess

But you told me that everything was going to be all right.

you told me all that mattered was me and you

I slowly started having feelings for you

and that’s when I knew

that I wanted you.

We began this journey together

I remember when you would hold my hand and kiss my neck

or when you would just hold me and say “you’re the best”.

It was amazing.

But I’ve been hurt before and when it was too much

I tried pushing you away.

The only thing is that I was successful

because you changed your mind

and you no longer wished to see me.

But you would still come and see me at night

telling me how hard it all was

but then it changed because now i know

that you no longer care.

And now? I’m the girl who’s sitting next to you

trying to hide the fact how much you’ve hurt me

and how much I still want you.

I’m wearing this mask everyday to try and act tough

even though my heart is screaming.

But I know that I deserve better.

I know that I deserve to be covered in smiles

and not in tears.

I’m just waiting for the day when my heart understands

what my head already knows.

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